Way back in the early 1990s at a sci fi con I attended regularly, on a circuit I attended regularly, I was hanging out with a bunch of friends. One was a woman who we could call a friend with benefits.┬á Another would be later.┬á Three guys who also threw themed parties, a DJ and his assistant, two other women, and one who is the person in question.
She was mutual friends with my FwB, the guy she was with, and another. We'd interacted, hung out, been at convention parties.
That evening, it became obvious she was interested.┬á A couple of hours later, we were back in my room. Making out, chatting, making out some more.┬á I lost my shirt.┬á
A few minutes later, she was sitting astride my hips, and peeled her dress over her head.┬á No bra--she had the youth and stature that didn't need one, and she did not have small breasts, either.┬á She was quite well built in all dimensions.
We both finished undressing, and had sex in several positions. Oral each way, she astride me, missionary, from behind, missionary again.┬á A good time was had by all.
We lay there for a while, talking some more, quick rinse in the shower together, clothes back on, and back out to socialize with the rest.
Two hours later, my FwB shows up with her current date.
"What happened tonight, Mike?"
"What, with ___?"
"What do you think happened?" (I generally try not to share specifics with others unless cleared to.)
"How did her dress come off, Mike?"
At this point I had a massive adrenaline surge. I mean, you saw the list, it was obvious to me it was all consensual...I thought. Did I miss a signal? No, she asked for several things specifically.
"Um....she took it off...while astride me."
There was silence, and I asked, "Is this going to be a problem?"
FwB says, sigh, "No, she's done this before."
Get that? She'd done this BEFORE.
I ascribe some of this to hangover societal puritannical bullshit (though the Puritans demanded sex be an active part of marriage both ways), compounded by Victorian bullshit.
You see, Nice Girls don't do things like that.┬á So if a woman has absorbed this belief, but actually likes a load of cum in her face, or being fucked in the ass, or shoved against a wall and her skirt yanked up, or two cocks at once, then she's a slut.┬á
But, if she wasn't really into it, and she was just going along with it, then she wasn't really a slut, so it's okay.
But there's a line between misplaced puritanical guilt over enjoying yourself and A FALSE ACCUSATION OF RAPE.
An acquaintance is an EEO officer for a large military installation. Divorce is sadly common in the military due to relocations, duty cycles, separations for deployment, and occasionally for things like infidelity (less than you might expect. There's a half-joke about "Are you married?" "No, I'm temporary duty." And a lot of couples tolerate or enjoy that just to take some of the stress off, with the understanding that once those months or years of separation are done, they're a couple)(they're not asking for your moral judgment, so stuff it).
He reports that several times a MONTH, a woman (spouse) filing for divorce would come in, and accuse the service member of abuse, violations, etc.
He could immediately tell which ones were fake. They were literally word for word from a popular TV show episode about this.
But, every one of these cases must be "investigated," which pulls someone off duty for questioning, and impedes anything in their mission that involves a security clearance, and costs YOU, the taxpayer, tens of thousands of dollars.
Because some lying whore wants a bigger cut of a pension, or to fuck someone's career over and hurt them for life because they're angry at how their life isn't a fairy tale.
You know who else suffers from this?
ACTUAL VICTIMS AND SURVIVORS of abuse and sexual assault, who try to speak, and get a response of (eyeroll), oh, god, not this shit again.
So when Christine Ford can't remember if it was 2, 4, or 6 people present at a party where she admits she was drinking underage, or where it was, or how she got there, or how she got home, and didn't tell anyone, and 6 of the 4 witnesses say it never happened, and she couldn't get to Congress on Monday because she's terrified of flying, but has 100,000 frequent flyer miles from vacationing in the Pacific...
It's reasonable to assume she's LYING about remembering absolutely that it was a candidate she opposes politically, who belongs to a party she's publicly vowed to hinder in any way possible.
And stop with the bullshit that she has "nothing to gain," because she's already gained $500,000 from a gofundme, notoriety, headlines, and may even get a book deal. And most importantly, might fuck with our constitutional process to make it easier for her Nazi fucking Demorrhoid Party to control the government.
She's a lying whore, and anyone with any analytical sense has known that from the beginning.